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Between
You and Me / Between You and IBetween you and me, the phrase "between you and I" grates on my ears like nails on a chalkboard. I hear the wrong version about 3 times as often as I hear it said the right way, so let's get this straightened out once and for all. Between is a preposition, and in English, a preposition must be followed by an indirect object pronoun. Me is an indirect object pronoun, and I is a subject pronoun. Therefore, between has to be followed by me, not I.
The confusion between whether to use me or I may be due to the fact that many people over-correct when it comes to using the pronoun I. For many of us, we can still hear a parent or teacher saying, Tom and I went to the store. Not, Tom and me. In this sentence, I is correct because it's the subject: I went to the store with Tom = Tom and I went to the store. This admonition continues to echo in that auto-correct spot of our brains. Consequently, if there is any doubt whatsoever about which pronoun to use, the little sound bite gets activated and we opt for I. To improve your English and know which pronoun to use, ask yourself whom you are doing this for: I'm doing it for me.
English Difficulties Subject Pronous
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